(May 25th, 2011)
Seven Elements of Healing
single skills for everyday life
The following is drawn from the transformation processes of
Robert Gonzales, one of the most experienced NVC trainers,
who is focusing on the inner transformational work.
For more than four years I have been coaching people successfully with resolving inner and outer conflicts; for the inner conflicts I've mainly used Robert Gonzales' transforming processes. In recent months I've gained increasing clarity about what seems to be important for resolving these inner conflicts... [read more]
(September 11, 2011)
Judgmental Thinking, the Cause of Suffering
and thus violence - and the Alternative as
a Way towards Joy in Living
Overview of the content
In this article, I'll explore the relationship between "judgmental thinking", and the suffering it creates for people caught up in it. And since this judgemental thinking is part of a wolrd-view that still is the predominant world-view in our societies, almost everybody is caught in it most of the time.
I will show why this world-view, that I call "judgmental thought system" inevitably leads to varied suffering ranging from feeling slightly uncomfortable up to great suffering. And how it is based upon the (mostly unconscious) belief in "guilt" and "sin"... [read more]